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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 24.06.2025 01:22

How does one succeed in life?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why are men ridiculously delusional in the women they want/approach? I'm not a troll. This is a real question. Why does a fat, pot bellied, unkempt, balding, stupid (ergo poor) man, tell a woman above his league that she isn't hot enough for him?

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What I need from you?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why do older siblings always hate younger siblings?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Procrastinates a lot.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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That's it for today.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hangs out with loser friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.